Let me preface this by saying how much appreciation I have for "real" single moms out there. Boy am I thankful this is temporary for me. Although I am grateful for my situtaion in many ways and probably would not change it if I had the opportunity and am so happy to see Minkas cute smile everyday...sometimes...this kinda blows.
Here is a breakdown of todays frustrating nightmare adventure:
- 5:00 AM Hear noises from Minka's room. Praying she goes back to bed. No noise. Shove my face back into the pillow and force myself back to sleep.
- 6:25 Hear joyful babbling from Minka's room. Groan as I go to get her.
- We play and she is as happy as ever as I try to keep my eyes open.
- 8:00 Naptime. THANK YOU! It could not have come soon enough.
- 9:00 Hear Minka playing. Speed shower so I can rescue her while she is still happy. She plays as I get us both ready.
- 10:00 We head out the door. It's chilly. We are dressed in pants and longsleeves.
- Get a LOT of groceries and other items needed for the week.
- 11:30 Get home and realize there are about two trips needed to get all the bags inside. Wait. I need to carry Minka up and down the gigantic flight of stairs and across the parking lot each time. Four loads.
- I am sweating. Minka is tired and crabby.
- 12:00 Naptime for Minka. I run around the house throwing in a load of laundry, starting dishwasher, put away groceries, clean up from breakfast that was left out. Sit down, hear Minka. Crap.
- Minka gets up and continues to play with fireplace (it has a marble slab in front of it and two glass doors Minka finds as a SUPER fun game.). Pack up again to find a solution.
- 1:30 A kids store has a mat to cover the marble floor but no bench/bins/chairs to block off the doors and glass. I put Minka in the stroller to walk to Bed Bath and Beyond because she is refusing her carseat these days.
- When did it get to 85 degrees? Sweating.
- Find two small ottomans that will work in bed bath and beyhond. Stare at Minka in stroller and two ottomans I need to carry. Hmm...
- Head back to the kids store, buy mat. Load Minka into car. Why is the AC not cold??
- Go back into Bed Bath and Beyond. Get two ottomans. Minkas hungry and screaming. Find her a bottle. Load the two ottomans and Minka back into car.
- Head Home.
- Minka, diaper bag, two ottomans, and mat....how many trips to get it all inside? Now its like a horribly unfun game that I need to win. Two. I can do it in two trips.
- Trip number one complete. Is it the thin Denver air or the 60lb load I just hiked up the apartment that has stolen my breath?
- Minka plays while I chug water, change into tank top and shorts and head back down with Minka in arms to get the last of our load.
- The rest of the day was doing the next three loads of laundry, taking out the garbages, and playing with Minka.
- I spared you the details of the normal things like 6 diaper changes, two oufit changes, a bath, two snacks and three meals.
- I spent my free time writing out cards that should have been sent out a week ago, couponing (my new hobby), cleaning up the spaghetti Minka smeared on the white walls, table, floor, and chair, talking to my husband, calling a friend and now it is 9:30. I need to sleep because we all know this all starts over again tomorrow bright and early!
2 comments:
Yikes. I hope you don't have another day that hard for a while! I know the feeling though :(
Imagine doing that with two! YIKES~!
Mommy's are tougher than men no matter what the men say! =o)
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